Sometimes what once felt easy gets lost: open conversations, a shared direction, the sense of true connection. Instead, misunderstandings, withdrawal, or conflict creep in – sometimes slowly, sometimes suddenly. And at some point you ask: how did we get here?

Many couples find themselves in situations like these:

  • Conversations often end in arguments – or in silence
  • One partner withdraws while the other wants to “finally talk”
  • The same conflicts repeat without resolution
  • The feeling of not being seen, understood, or appreciated
  • Different ideas about family life, work division, or future plans
  • Jealousy, broken trust, or old wounds strain the relationship
  • Everyday life dominates – and there’s no space for the relationship
  • Different needs for closeness, intimacy, autonomy, or structure
  • A new life stage demands a new “us”
  • Separation is on your mind – but you’re unsure and hopeful at the same time

Systemic couples therapy isn’t about who’s “right” – but about understanding each other again. Together, we explore patterns, dynamics, and unspoken needs. The goal is to reconnect: with yourself, with your partner, and with what can sustain – or transform – your relationship.