Sometimes what once felt easy gets lost: open conversations, a shared direction, the sense of true connection. Instead, misunderstandings, withdrawal, or conflict creep in – sometimes slowly, sometimes suddenly. And at some point you ask: how did we get here?
Many couples find themselves in situations like these:
- Conversations often end in arguments – or in silence
- One partner withdraws while the other wants to “finally talk”
- The same conflicts repeat without resolution
- The feeling of not being seen, understood, or appreciated
- Different ideas about family life, work division, or future plans
- Jealousy, broken trust, or old wounds strain the relationship
- Everyday life dominates – and there’s no space for the relationship
- Different needs for closeness, intimacy, autonomy, or structure
- A new life stage demands a new “us”
- Separation is on your mind – but you’re unsure and hopeful at the same time
Systemic couples therapy isn’t about who’s “right” – but about understanding each other again. Together, we explore patterns, dynamics, and unspoken needs. The goal is to reconnect: with yourself, with your partner, and with what can sustain – or transform – your relationship.