We face decisions every day – and sometimes they paralyze us. Whether it’s changing jobs, relationships, moving house, or seemingly smaller things: constant weighing of options, fear of making the wrong choice, or the feeling of losing touch with yourself can be overwhelming. While others seem to decide effortlessly, you get stuck – between doubt, overthinking, and inner pressure.
Many people experience thoughts or feelings like these when faced with decisions:
- “What if I make the wrong decision?”
- I overthink everything – and still come to no conclusion.
- My head says A, my gut says B – I don’t know which to trust.
- I keep waiting for a clear sign – but it never comes.
- Decisions drain me of energy – even after they’re made.
- I’m afraid to disappoint others or lose something.
- I get lost in analysis – and end up making no decision at all.
- I even doubt decisions I’ve already made.
- Others seem so sure – why not me?
- I don’t even know what I truly want anymore.
In systemic therapy, the focus isn’t on the “right” decision – but on your inner clarity. Together, we explore what’s blocking you, which inner voices are speaking up – and how to reconnect with your own stance and intuition. This allows decisions to emerge that don’t need to be perfect – but feel right.